I am excited to announce our new teen series at FBC coming in September. We are taking nine weeks and studying the book, Just Friends, by Cary Schmidt and Mike Ray. I read this book over the summer, and it is the best book I have ever read on the subject of guy/girl relationships.
Many times parents/Christian leaders feel intimidated or inadequate to deal with the subject. The problem then becomes that our kids are going to the wrong sources for advice. They mimic the world, and we see the kids trying to "be in a relationship" who are definitely not ready for that kind of relationship. On the other hand, I have observed many well meaning individuals that go to the other extreme and try to completely keep teens away from the opposite gender. This usually results in the teens taking it "underground" and building an unhealthy relationship based on secrecy and deception.
My desire is that we as Pastors and parents work together to teach our kids Biblical principles in this area of relationships. As a church, we encourage our teens to wait until after high school before having a serious dating relationship. However, it is my desire that during high school, we begin to prepare them for being the right person to enjoy a wonderful "Someday."
If you have a teenager, or kids about to be teenagers, I encourage you to have them in the Teen Class in the months of September and October. Even if you and your family are not members of our church, I want to extend the invitation for you to join us for this series. Many want to shy away from this subject, leaving it up to the kids to "figure it out", but I encourage parents and leaders to wake up and get involved on behalf of kid's future.
Pastor Joel

